Abasore cyangwa abagabo benshi birabagora kumenya ingano y’igitsina cy’umukobwa cyangwa umugore bataryamanye nyamara hari ibimenyetso bishobora kubikwereka utiriwe unaryamana nawe.
Bitewe nuko igitsina cy’umukobwa ibice byinshi byacyo biba imbere mu mubiri, ntabwo wavuga ko habaho igitsina gore gito kuko byose imbere biba byashobora gucamo umwana igihe ari kubyara gusa nanone iyo tuvuga igitsina kinini ni cya gice cy’inyuma kigaragarira n’amaso tuba tuvuga.
Iyo uvuga ngo igitsina cy’umugore cyangwa umukobwa kiba ari kinini ntabwo ari ukuvuga ngo gifite umwenge munini, Oya ahubwo tuba tuvuze cya gice kigaragara inyuma.
Ingano rero y’icyo gice cy’igitsina gore kenshi ushobora no kuyimenya ukoresheje amaso yawe bitewe n’imiterere y’umubiri w’umukobwa cyangwa Umugore.
Dore bimwe mu biranga umugore ufite igitsina kinini:
1. Amabere manini: Umugore cyangwa umukobwa ufite amabere manini akenshi igitsina cye kiba ari kinini nacyo, gusa ntibivuze ko abafite mato kiba ari gito. Gusa nanone ashobora kugira manini ariko anabyibushye cyane ku buryo usanga igitsina cye ari gitoya.
2. Kuba ananutse: Abakobwa cyangwa abagore bananutse akenshi nibo baba bafite ingano nini y’igitsina kuko ntago baba bafite ibinure byinshi bigipfukirana dore ko benshi banakunze guca umugani ngo “Akazu gato niko karya ubwatsi”
3. Iminwa minini: Benshi mu bagabo cyangwa abasore iyo babonye umugore ufite iminwa minini usanga bongorerana ngo buriya no hasi niko bimeze. Nyamara ibyo baba bavuga nibyo kuko umugore ufite iminwa minini niko aba anafite igitsina gifite umubyimba munini.
4. Amatako atandukanye: Umugore cyangwa umukobwa ufite mu matako hatandukanye mbese hagati y’amaguru ye harimo umwanya biba bivuze ko ashobora kuba afite igitsina kinini dore ko bene uwo mukobwa iyo yambaye umwenda ubonerana ushobora gihita ukibona wamuturuka inyuma cyangwa imbere.
Ibi tuvuze haruguru siko bose uzasanga babyujuje ijana ku ijana kuko imiterere y’abantu itameze kimwe kandi bigaterwa n’ingano wita ko ari nini.
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