Benshi mu basore usanga bibaza ku mukobwa runaka niba bamwegera bakamutereta ariko ugasanga bafite ubwoba bwo kumuvugisha, hari abasore baba bashaka wa mukobwa wo kuryoshyanya ndetse hari nababa bashaka umukobwa wo gukundana bya nyabyo ku buryo bapanga no kuzabana.
Hari igihe umusore cyangwa umugabo ashobora kugera mu gace runaka atahamenyereye ariko akaba ashaka umukobwa wo kujya baba bari kumwe bamwe bita ”uwo kuryoshya” ariko ugasanga bari kugorwa no kumubona kuko benshi ushobora kubavugisha hagashira n’amezi utari wabafatisha ngo mube mwatangira kuryosha.
Byoseonline.rw twabateguriye ibintu bishobora kugufasha mu guhita umenya wa mukobwa wamenyereye gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina ku buryo igihe ubishakiye cyose yagutabara;
Umukobwa ushabutse ukuntu: Aha ntabwo nshatse kuvuga ko abakobwa bose bashabutse bakunda gusambana oya, ahubwo hari abakobwa uba usanga bagera imbere y’igitsina gabo cyane cyane ababa ari bashya mu gace batuyemo ugasanga nibwo bagize amagambo menshi ugasanga babisanzuyeho cyane. Rimwe na rimwe uwo mukobwa yigirisha utuntu two kugira amasoni ariko mu byukuri aba yumva yamushatse.
Umukobwa wambara imyenda migufi cyane: Ubundi mu Rwanda bitewe n’umuco waranganga abanyarwanda hari abantu babona umukobwa cyangwa umugore yambaye ijipo ngufi ugasanga abantu benshi batangiye kumwita indaya ariko mu byukuri si ko bose aba ari zo kuko ubu ahubwo bigaragaza umusirimu gusa hari abambara ngufi bikabije. Gusa nanone hari abayambara bashaka gukurura abasore cyangwa abagabo ngo bakunde babavugishe batangire kugirana umubano kenshi ushingiye ku mibonano mpuzabitsina.
Kwitegereza Abasore/Abagabo: Nkubwije ukuri nuba uri kumwe n’umukobwa ukabona ari kugenda arangamiye abasore/abagabo muri kugenda muhura ndetse akanasubiza amaso inyuma abitegereza jya umenya ko uwo yamenyereye gusambana kuko kenshi areba babandi bashinguye cyangwa se bakoze ibaba; Iyo abareba ahita yimajina bari kumwe mu buriri baryamanye. Umukobwa utari waryamana n’umugabo ntabwo yasubiza amaso inyuma ari kureba umusore.
Ibi byose tuvuze haruguru ntabwo byahita bituma uvuga ko aribyo ijana ku ijana kuko hari ibindi wareberaho nk’imyitwarire ye ndetse n’ibindi.
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