Mu Rwanda hari umugore ntavuze izina ukurikirwa cyane kuri Instagram aho afite abarenga miliyoni bamukurikira ndetse agakomeza gukurikirwa cyane no ku zindi mbuga nkoranyambaga akoresha, ariko nubwo akurikirwa n’abo bantu bangana gutyo nta somo rifatika wavuga abamukurikira bamukuraho dore ko nanjye wanditse iyi nkuru ntashishikariza umwana wanjye kumukurikira.
Hari abakurikirwa cyane kubera batera urwenya, kuba bavuga amagambo y’ubwenge, kuba ari umuyobozi mu bya politike cyangwa ibindi ariko we si umwe muri abo mvuze haruguru, akurikirwa cyane kubera amafoto ye y’imiterere y’umubiri we gusa, kandi byaramukijije.
Abakobwa benshi bafashe uwo muvuno ndetse hari nabo biri guhira gusa byarenze imijyi ubu byageze no mu bice by’icyaro dore ko ubu umwana w’umukobwa wo mu bice by’icyaro nawe atari gutinya kwifotoza yambaye umwenda w’imbere gusa kandi iyo foto akayishyira ku karubanda, Nyamara abari kugaragaza ubushobozi bw’ibitekerezo byakubaka umuryango nyarwanda bo ni bake.
Hari impamvu nyinshi byoseonline yaguhitiyemo ibona zishobora gutuma abakobwa cyangwa abagore bimwe na bimwe bashyira imbere imiterere y’inyuma kurusha ibitekerezo cyangwa ubushobozi bwo mu mutwe.
Dore zimwe muri izo mpamvu:
1. Igitutu cy’imibereho n’umuco
Mu mico myinshi, abagore bakunze gukurikiranwaho imiterere yabo y’inyuma kurusha ibitekerezo byabo. Uko basa bishobora kugirana isano n’uburyo bakirwa cyangwa bahabwa agaciro mu muryango cyangwa mu kazi.
Imbuga nkoranyambaga zashyizeho igitutu cyo kugaragara neza (beauty standards), bigatuma abantu benshi bashaka kwiyerekana ku buryo buhuje n’ibyo bishushanyo byashyizwe imbere.
2. Imyumvire ivangavanze ku bwiza
Hari igihe ubwiza bwo ku mubiri bushobora gufatwa nk’inkingi ya mbere yo kwigaragaza, bigatuma bamwe bibwira ko kugira imiterere ituma bamenyekana cyangwa bakundwa ari ingenzi kurusha kugira ibitekerezo n’ubuhanga.
Ubusanzwe, umuntu aba akeneye kwiyizera, kandi hari abumva ko ubwiza bw’inyuma ari bwo butanga icyizere cyo kwemerwa.
3. Imiyoboro y’itumanaho n’icyo ishyira imbere
Filime, ibyamamare, ibyamamaza, ndetse n’imbuga nkoranyambaga bikunze gushyira imbere ubwiza bw’inyuma, bigatera urubyiruko rw’abakobwa kubyigana ngo nabo babashe kumenyekana cyangwa guhabwa agaciro.
4. Ubujyanama buke mu gushimangira ubushobozi bw’umutwe
Mu bihugu byinshi, harimo n’u Rwanda, hakenewe ibikorwa byinshi byo gukangurira abakobwa gushyira imbere impano zabo, ubumenyi, n’ibitekerezo byabo. Iyo bidashyirwa imbere, hari abumva ko kwita ku bwiza bw’inyuma ari bwo buryo bwihuse bwo kugira icyo bageraho.
5. Ubushake bwo gukurura amahirwe n’ubuzima bwiza
Hari abakobwa bumva ko imiterere yabo ishobora kubafasha kubona amahirwe mu kazi, mu rukundo, cyangwa mu buzima muri rusange.
Kugira ngo ibi bihinduke, bisaba:
Gushyigikira no gushimira abakobwa bagaragaza impano n’ubumenyi bwabo mu ngeri zitandukanye.
Gushyira imbere uburezi n’ibiganiro bigamije gushimangira ko ubwiza bw’umutwe ari ingenzi kurusha ubw’inyuma.
Gukoresha itangazamakuru n’imbuga nkoranyambaga mu buryo bushimangira ko abagore bafite byinshi by’agaciro kurenza uko basa.
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