Mu minsi yashize nibwo mu binyamakuru bitandukanye hano mu Rwanda hakwirakwiye amakuru y’umusore waciwe ururimi n’umukobwa basanzwe bakundana ndetse uwo mukobwa akaba ari gukurikiranwa n’Urwego rw’Igihugu rw’Ubugenzacyaha RIB.
Mu kiganiro yagiranye n’ikinyamakuru Igihe, uyu mukobwa uvugwaho guca umukunzi we ururimi avuga ko yabikoze atabigambiriye ndetse kandi ko akimukunda ko yiteguye kubana na we. Bivugwa ko umusore yarumwe ururimi ubwo yashakaga gufata umukobwa ku ngufu, ariko nyamusore we arabihakana. Kugeza ubu igice cy’ururimi rwacitse baragishatse barakibura.
Nubwo ururimi rwacitse, yaba umusore cyangwa umukobwa bombi buri wese aracyavuga ko agikunda mugenzi we, ndetse ngo baracyakomeje umushinga wo kubana.
Uko byagenze
Umukobwa afite imyaka 21, akaba ari umunyeshuri mu mwaka wa kane w’amashuri yisumbuye ku Rwunge rw’Amashuri rwa Rwingongo muri Rutsiro.
Umunsi ukurikira Noheli wari wagenze neza kuri abo bombi dore ko umusore yari yasuye umukobwa akaza amuzaniye n’impano, bakemeranya ko iyo mpano umukobwa ayica iryera amuherekeje kuko ‘isekeje’.
Umukobwa nk’uwari wasuwe n’umuntu w’ingenzi mu buzima dore ko bamaze imyaka ine bakundana, yaramuzimaniye aramutekera ndetse n’umuryango baraganira dore ko bari basanzwe bamuzi ‘nk’umukwe’.
Umunsi uciye ikibu ahagana saa Kumi n’imwe n’iminota 50, umusore yarasezeye, umukobwa yemera kumuherekeza iminota icumi akagaruka imuhira mu turimo two mu rugo.
Umukobwa ati “Namubwiye ko muherekeza iminota icumi, we ansaba iminota 20, twumvikana ko muherekeza iminota 20. Turagenda tugeze mu nzira, yari yambwiye ngo ngufitiye impano isekeje ariko ntabwo nyiguhera mu rugo.”
Hashize iminota mike bamaze kurenga iwabo w’umukobwa bageze mu gashyamba, umusore asaba umukobwa kuzamuka gato bakicara kure y’inzira, kugira ngo amushyikirize impano ‘isekeje’ yamuteguriye.
Ati “Arambwira ati ‘twicare hariya hitaruye inzira gato tuganire hari icyo nshaka kukubwira dutuje nguhe n’impano yawe’, ndamubwira nti ‘nta ribi’.”
Hashize iminota icumi baganira gusa umusore ataratanga impano, umukobwa amwibutsa ko bari gutinda. Byabaye ngombwa ko impano itangwa, umukobwa asanga koko ‘isekeje’.
Ati “Nk’uko yakabivuze nasanze isekeje. Yari ipfunyitse, ndayifungura ndayireba, nsanga harimo ikariso ya 500 Frw, ndamubwira nti ‘koko birasekeje’. Birangiye naramubwiye nti ‘ndatashye’, arabyanga. Ndamubwira nti ‘reka ntahe nigire mu rugo’ ati ‘oya ba uretse gato’. Byari bimaze kuba saa Kumi n’ebyiri na 24.”
Uko ururimi rwacitse
Umukobwa avuga ko umusore yatangiye kumukorakora ku mabere, undi abanza kugira ngo birarangirira aho ariko arakomeza.
Mu magambo ye yagize ati:“Yafashe ukuboko akunyuza mu mupira nari nambaye ufite ijosi rinini, akora ku mabere, ndamureka. Amanura ukuboko agukoza ku nda, ndamubwira nti ‘Mbabarira nirwarira igifu, imbeho itanyica kuko iyo inyishe ndarwara’, ati ‘nta ribi’.
“Arongera afata ukuboko akunyuza mu gitenge n’ijipo nari nambaye ashaka gukora ku gitsina, ndamubwira nti ‘aho ugeze ni he? Ati ‘mbabarira ntabwo nakubangamira ku bintu udashaka, ntabwo ndi bwongere’. Ndavuga nti rero ndatashye, arabyanga nanone.”
Muri ako kanya umuhungu yahise ahindura isura, abwira umukobwa ko ntaho ajya natamuha ibyo ashaka. Umukobwa ngo yavugije induru ariko aho bari bari nta bantu bari bari kuhanyura.
Umukobwa yabanje kugundagurana n’umusore ariko biza guhosha. Ka kiziritse ku muhoro rero, byageze aho umusore yinginga umukobwa ngo nibura amusome ‘adatahira aho’ undi aranga.
Ati “Arambwira ati ‘mpa tire langue y’umunota umwe’, ndabyanga. Mubwira ko ari icyaha cy’ubusambanyi. Nti uwakoze tire langue n’ibindi byose yabikora. Arangije aravuga ati ‘uko bigenda kose ntuncika. Ururimi rwe nanjye sinzi ngo yaruzanye ate arushyira mu kanwa kanjye nisanga narurumye.”
Umusore bamaze kumuca ururimi, ngo yarushijeho gukoresha imbaraga, abwira umukobwa ati: ‘‘ntabwo wangira gutya ngo unsige hano, uko bigenda kose turajyana ube umugore wanjye’. Ndamubwira ‘nti ibyo se bitwaye iki?”
Kubera kugundagurana bikubita ku biti n’amabuye, umukobwa na we atangira kugira isereri, umusore amurusha ingufu amubwira ko agiye kumukoresha imibonano mpuzabitsina.
Ati “Yaramfashe kuko nta mbaraga nari ngifite zo kurwana, agiye kunsambanya kuko yari yakomeretse afite uruguma ahita acika intege, arambwira ati ‘Reba ukuntu unduhije none n’umugambi wanjye sinywugezeho, mfungira ipantalo dutahe.’ Ndayifunga turazamuka ati ‘ariko turajyana iwacu tujye kubana n’ubundi ntaho unsize’ ndamubwira nti ‘oya’ wakomeretse ‘tubanze tujye kwa muganga!’”.
Umukobwa avuga ko bageze iwabo bagahita bakomereza kwa muganga ariko abaturanyi bo bavuga ko iwabo w’umukobwa babanje gufungirana umusore mu nzu, kugeza ubwo abaturanyi aribo batabaje basaba ko ajyanwa kwa muganga kuko yavaga amaraso menshi.
Bamaze kugera ku kigo nderabuzima, bahawe ubufasha bw’ibanze bahita babohereza ku Rwego rw’Igihugu rushinzwe Ubugenzacyaha kugira ngo rubanze gukurikirana, bakomereza ku Bitaro bya Murunda.
Umukobwa yaje gufatwa atabwa muri yombi ariko tariki 31 Ukuboza 2021 arekurwa by’agateganyo kugira ngo akurikiranwe ari hanze, mu gihe umuhungu we yari yavuye mu bitaro tariki 30 Ukuboza.
Kugeza ubu uyu Musore yahakanye ibyo kugerageza gufata ku ngufu uwo mukobwa, avuga ko utashaka gufata ku ngufu ngo ukoreshe ururimi, ndetse yongeraho kuba ururimi rwarageze mu kanwa kugeza aho rurumwa, bitabaye ku gahato.
Ati “Ntabwo mbizi niba byaramugwiririye nanjye ni byo mubaza. Ntabwo arampa ibisobanuro.”
Umusore yavuze ko yiteguye kubana n’umukobwa nabyemera ndetse ngo n’inzu bari kuzabanamo iri hafi kuzura.
About The Author
