Si ubwa mbere mu nkuru ushobora kuba warumvise ko umugabo cyangwa umusore witabye Imana ubwo yari mu gikorwa cy’ibyishimo cy’imibonano mpuzabitsina we nuwo bashakanye cyangwa se uwo babyumvikanyeho ariko ibyari igikorwa cy’ibyishimo kigahinduka amarira bitewe n’umugabo/umusore witabye imana ari muri icyo gikorwa.
Byoseonline.rw twabakusanyirije zimwe mu mpamvu zishobora gutuma umugabo apfa mu gihe ari mu gikorwa cy’imibonano mpuzabitsina:
1. Indwara z’umutima: Abagabo bafite indwara z’umutima, baba bafite ibyago byinshi byo kugira ibibazo by’umutima mu gihe cy’imibonano mpuzabitsina. Umunaniro mwinshi wo mu buryo bw’umubiri no kwiyongera k’umubyibuho w’umutima bifitanye isano n’imibonano mpuzabitsina, bishobora gutuma umutima uhagarara.
2. Gukoresha ibiyobyabwenge: Gukoresha ibiyobyabwenge mu buryo bwo kwidagadura, cyane cyane ibibangamira umuvuduko w’amaraso, bishobora kongera ibyago byo kurwara umutima mu gihe cy’imibonano mpuzabitsina, cyane cyane ku bagabo bafite indwara z’umutima.
Ibiyobyabwenge nka kokayine n’ibindi biyobyabwenge bimwe na bimwe bishobora guteza akaga muri iyo icyo gihe.
3. Gukabya: gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina ukarenza imbaraga zawe, muri make ugahatiriza nabyo bishobora gutuma uhaburira ubuzima bitewe n’umunaniro ukabije, dore ko ari nawo wica abantu cyane iyo barimo bakora imibonano.
4. Gutakaza amazi mu mubiri: Gutakaza amazi mu mubiri bishobora gutuma umuvuduko w’amaraso ugabanuka, ibyo bikaba bishobora gutuma umuntu agira isesemi cyangwa akagwa igihumura mu gihe cy’imibonano mpuzabitsina. Ni iby’ingenzi ko umuntu anywa amazi menshi, cyane cyane mu gihe akora ibikorwa bisaba imbaraga nyinshi.
5. Guhangayika cyane: Guhangayika cyane bishobora gutuma umubiri ukora nk’aho urwana, bigatuma umutima utera cyane kandi umuvuduko w’amaraso ukazamuka. Rimwe na rimwe, ibyo bishobora gutuma umuntu aheranwa cyangwa akagira isereri.
6. Imiti: Imiti imwe n’imwe ishobora guhindura umuvuduko w’amaraso, cyane cyane imiti ifatwa kugira ngo umuntu arusheho gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina, ishobora guhindura umuvuduko w’umutima w’umuntu uyikoresha mu gihe yaba afite ikibazo cy’umutima cyangwa ari umusaza.